Now you might think it’s ironic that I am about to big up the importance of being able to speak freely, when 90% of the phrases I have screamed at you throughout your childhood involve the words “shut” and “up”.
Silence isn’t always Golden
Sure silencing other people sounds great, but there’s a problem. Where free communication stops, conspiracy festers. Underground groups form and then the ignorance they whisper to each other goes unchecked by anyone better placed to explain the truth.
It’s only human to want people that you don’t agree with to shut up, and one of the best reasons people have for wanting to limit free-speech is that it’s bloody hard work arguing with idiots. BUT, and here’s the important bit, one of the WORST reasons people have for wanting to limit free-speech, is to silence all opponents.
There are countries in this world that do not have freedom of speech, and for precisely the worst reason above. So we must fight hard to maintain the freedoms we currently might NOT enjoy, but do HAVE. Even if that means our ears do bleed occasionally.
Listen To Opposing Views
You don’t have to listen to someone whose general values and opinions are the opposite of yours, but you should, because you might learn something
…even if it’s just something to use against them later.
Seriously, the phrase “know your enemy” was invented for a reason. It’s easier to outgun someone if you know what they’re packing.
Another important reason to listen to people you disagree with, is to maintain objectivity in your own opinions. Living in an echo-chamber, where nothing is ever challenged, not only damages your objectivity, but worse it damages your ability to argue your case effectively.
Auntie Kate and I have never liked the phrase “If you’ve got a problem, say it to my face!” because we both hate confrontation and agree it’s far more comfortable for everyone, if people say things behind our backs instead.
We are of course right, it IS way more comfortable, but it neither identifies nor resolves problems, for that unfortunately, you have to let others speak out.